and sadness that I write this blog. You see, Joshua's ex-wife died Sunday evening, October 30 around 5:00 p.m. or so. While Rachel and Josh may have been divorced they were still friends and kept in contact, especially for the boys sake. The boys Jared 14 yrs, Brian 12 years, and Elijah 10 yrs are doing well right now, but the anger is starting to show in them in little ways. Thank God that they are with an Aunt who is loving, understanding and great mom with her own two children. Brian was the one who found his mom. They lived in a 5th wheel that Josh had bought, while they were married, and it is on her mother's property in Marblemount. Rachel had told her mother that she was going to lay down for a while and the boys went with their step-grandfather into the woods to cut some firewood. When they got back Brian went to the trailer to wake his mom and discovered that there was blood (and a lot of it that the hassmat team had to come and bag everything) coming from her ears, nose and mouth. Sorry to be so graphic and blunt, but it is what Brian saw and relayed that to his grandmother and step-grandfather. It seems she had a brain aneurysm that had never been discovered. Apparently there are no signs or symptoms with this type of thing. Rachel was also in a lot of pain from two back surgeries and was being taken care of by her mom. But, she never let it get to her when it came to her boys. She was at every school event and at every football game because Jared was on the team. While things may not have worked out between Josh and Rachel, she was a good person to me and those around her. If you needed anything done, cleaning or some yard work she was there to help. Whenever she was in Mount Vernon she would always stop by to say hi and visit for a while. She was a fun loving jokester and her laughter was contagious and so were her fun loving ways. She was good mom to her boys and she is going to be greatly missed by all who knew and loved her. I was surprised at myself at how hard her death has hit me. She was 33 years old and in the prime of her life pain and all. Rachel's youngest sister, Crystal, has stepped up to the plate and taken the boys in to care for them. DSHS told her that they HAVE to notify each father that she has passed so that they can make a decision as to what they will do about their son. But, it seems that each of them are worthless bums. Each of them do not have jobs and the little odds and ends they do get are under the table. They have no place to live so they bounce around from friend to friend for a place to sleep or they sleep in their car. If any one of them try to take their son, Crystal and her husband Ed are prepared to fight them. They are currently working on becoming Non-Custodial Parents to the boys. God has taken them care of them in that she and her husband found a nice 5 bedroom home to rent and on the weekends that Crystal works, Ed watches the children. It is going to cost her $250 to file the legal papers and she was quite worried and wondered about how she was going to get the money to do this. Ed's grandparents sent Crystal a sympathy card and in it was a $300 check. There was her answer to prayer. the money to file for custody of the boys. Ed is very involved with each child including his own from a previous marriage as with Crystal's two children from her previous marriage. They are a Christian family and God has given Crystal such wonderful insight and wisdom to being a good mother and finding the right ways to raise a child without the aid of those books on the market that are so misguiding to the actual realization on how to be a good parent.
When the family sat down together, including the boys, to make a decision as to where they were going to live and giving the boys their freedom to chose whomever they wanted live with out of the two Aunts that were willing to step up to the plate, they all chose Crystal hands down. Seems the other sister wanted to take them for all the wrong reasons part of which was the money that will come from Social Security to help suport the children. Rachel was also a member of the up river tribe so their will be some help there and whatever the state will provide in the way of medical coverage and food stamps. Her household has jumped from 4 permanent residents to 7 now. Then on the visitation days Ed has his children....well lets just say it is a house full.
There is going to be a fundraising celebration of life on Sunday the 13th for those family and friends who want to attend and for those who want to donate. You see, the funeral home wanted $4500 for Rachel's cremation and the family is so poor their is no way they could afford it. The family spoke with the funeral home about the entire situation and they lowered the price down to $2500. Since there wasn't going to be an open viewing (at the request of the boys who said, "They didn't want anyone to see their mom dead") so to the family that $4500 was uncalled for. They will not release Rachel's ashes to the family until the bill is paid. Some family and friends have already donated and we plan on being there to celebrate her life and make a donation. There will be no flowers because Rachel didn't believe in giving flowers to anyone because she loved life and flowers always die. She loved angel statues and had quite a collection. So the family has requested that flowers not be given and is holding this fundraising celebration pot luck for those who want to come and remember Rachel for who she was while alive. The last time I talked to Rachel was when she called to see if it was alright leave an angel at my mom's grave. I thought that was a beautiful gesture on her part. She loved my mom and got along great with her.
I am really going to miss her as will Josh. Pray for Josh and her family that they will get through this grief and pain with God's loving arms around them to help keep them strong for themselves as well as the boys.
That is all for now. I will keep you all posted as things develop. The lab results from the autopsy will not be back for at least 6 to 8 weeks. So when I know something I will let you know. I am putting some pictures of Rachel in this blog so that those of my family and friends will know what she and the kids looked like. Thanks for taking the time to read my ramblings. You can read her obit at the Lemley Chapel site which is www.lemleychapel.com. Stroll on over and sign the guest book. Love to you all and thanks a head of time for your prayers.
and sadness that I write this blog. You see, Joshua's ex-wife died Sunday evening, October 30 around 5:00 p.m. or so. While Rachel and Josh may have been divorced they were still friends and kept in contact, especially for the boys sake. The boys Jared 14 yrs, Brian 12 years, and Elijah 10 yrs are doing well right now, but the anger is starting to show in them in little ways. Thank God that they are with an Aunt who is loving, understanding and great mom with her own two children. Brian was the one who found his mom. They lived in a 5th wheel that Josh had bought, while they were married, and it is on her mother's property in Marblemount. Rachel had told her mother that she was going to lay down for a while and the boys went with their step-grandfather into the woods to cut some firewood. When they got back Brian went to the trailer to wake his mom and discovered that there was blood (and a lot of it that the hassmat team had to come and bag everything) coming from her ears, nose and mouth. Sorry to be so graphic and blunt, but it is what Brian saw and relayed that to his grandmother and step-grandfather. It seems she had a brain aneurysm that had never been discovered. Apparently there are no signs or symptoms with this type of thing. Rachel was also in a lot of pain from two back surgeries and was being taken care of by her mom. But, she never let it get to her when it came to her boys. She was at every school event and at every football game because Jared was on the team. While things may not have worked out between Josh and Rachel, she was a good person to me and those around her. If you needed anything done, cleaning or some yard work she was there to help. Whenever she was in Mount Vernon she would always stop by to say hi and visit for a while. She was a fun loving jokester and her laughter was contagious and so were her fun loving ways. She was good mom to her boys and she is going to be greatly missed by all who knew and loved her. I was surprised at myself at how hard her death has hit me. She was 33 years old and in the prime of her life pain and all. Rachel's youngest sister, Crystal, has stepped up to the plate and taken the boys in to care for them. DSHS told her that they HAVE to notify each father that she has passed so that they can make a decision as to what they will do about their son. But, it seems that each of them are worthless bums. Each of them do not have jobs and the little odds and ends they do get are under the table. They have no place to live so they bounce around from friend to friend for a place to sleep or they sleep in their car. If any one of them try to take their son, Crystal and her husband Ed are prepared to fight them. They are currently working on becoming Non-Custodial Parents to the boys. God has taken them care of them in that she and her husband found a nice 5 bedroom home to rent and on the weekends that Crystal works, Ed watches the children. It is going to cost her $250 to file the legal papers and she was quite worried and wondered about how she was going to get the money to do this. Ed's grandparents sent Crystal a sympathy card and in it was a $300 check. There was her answer to prayer. the money to file for custody of the boys. Ed is very involved with each child including his own from a previous marriage as with Crystal's two children from her previous marriage. They are a Christian family and God has given Crystal such wonderful insight and wisdom to being a good mother and finding the right ways to raise a child without the aid of those books on the market that are so misguiding to the actual realization on how to be a good parent.
When the family sat down together, including the boys, to make a decision as to where they were going to live and giving the boys their freedom to chose whomever they wanted live with out of the two Aunts that were willing to step up to the plate, they all chose Crystal hands down. Seems the other sister wanted to take them for all the wrong reasons part of which was the money that will come from Social Security to help suport the children. Rachel was also a member of the up river tribe so their will be some help there and whatever the state will provide in the way of medical coverage and food stamps. Her household has jumped from 4 permanent residents to 7 now. Then on the visitation days Ed has his children....well lets just say it is a house full.
There is going to be a fundraising celebration of life on Sunday the 13th for those family and friends who want to attend and for those who want to donate. You see, the funeral home wanted $4500 for Rachel's cremation and the family is so poor their is no way they could afford it. The family spoke with the funeral home about the entire situation and they lowered the price down to $2500. Since there wasn't going to be an open viewing (at the request of the boys who said, "They didn't want anyone to see their mom dead") so to the family that $4500 was uncalled for. They will not release Rachel's ashes to the family until the bill is paid. Some family and friends have already donated and we plan on being there to celebrate her life and make a donation. There will be no flowers because Rachel didn't believe in giving flowers to anyone because she loved life and flowers always die. She loved angel statues and had quite a collection. So the family has requested that flowers not be given and is holding this fundraising celebration pot luck for those who want to come and remember Rachel for who she was while alive. The last time I talked to Rachel was when she called to see if it was alright leave an angel at my mom's grave. I thought that was a beautiful gesture on her part. She loved my mom and got along great with her.
I am really going to miss her as will Josh. Pray for Josh and her family that they will get through this grief and pain with God's loving arms around them to help keep them strong for themselves as well as the boys.
That is all for now. I will keep you all posted as things develop. The lab results from the autopsy will not be back for at least 6 to 8 weeks. So when I know something I will let you know. I am putting some pictures of Rachel in this blog so that those of my family and friends will know what she and the kids looked like. Thanks for taking the time to read my ramblings. You can read her obit at the Lemley Chapel site which is www.lemleychapel.com. Stroll on over and sign the guest book. Love to you all and thanks a head of time for your prayers.
and sadness that I write this blog. You see, Joshua's ex-wife died Sunday evening, October 30 around 5:00 p.m. or so. While Rachel and Josh may have been divorced they were still friends and kept in contact, especially for the boys sake. The boys Jared 14 yrs, Brian 12 years, and Elijah 10 yrs are doing well right now, but the anger is starting to show in them in little ways. Thank God that they are with an Aunt who is loving, understanding and great mom with her own two children. Brian was the one who found his mom. They lived in a 5th wheel that Josh had bought, while they were married, and it is on her mother's property in Marblemount. Rachel had told her mother that she was going to lay down for a while and the boys went with their step-grandfather into the woods to cut some firewood. When they got back Brian went to the trailer to wake his mom and discovered that there was blood (and a lot of it that the hassmat team had to come and bag everything) coming from her ears, nose and mouth. Sorry to be so graphic and blunt, but it is what Brian saw and relayed that to his grandmother and step-grandfather. It seems she had a brain aneurysm that had never been discovered. Apparently there are no signs or symptoms with this type of thing. Rachel was also in a lot of pain from two back surgeries and was being taken care of by her mom. But, she never let it get to her when it came to her boys. She was at every school event and at every football game because Jared was on the team. While things may not have worked out between Josh and Rachel, she was a good person to me and those around her. If you needed anything done, cleaning or some yard work she was there to help. Whenever she was in Mount Vernon she would always stop by to say hi and visit for a while. She was a fun loving jokester and her laughter was contagious and so were her fun loving ways. She was good mom to her boys and she is going to be greatly missed by all who knew and loved her. I was surprised at myself at how hard her death has hit me. She was 33 years old and in the prime of her life pain and all. Rachel's youngest sister, Crystal, has stepped up to the plate and taken the boys in to care for them. DSHS told her that they HAVE to notify each father that she has passed so that they can make a decision as to what they will do about their son. But, it seems that each of them are worthless bums. Each of them do not have jobs and the little odds and ends they do get are under the table. They have no place to live so they bounce around from friend to friend for a place to sleep or they sleep in their car. If any one of them try to take their son, Crystal and her husband Ed are prepared to fight them. They are currently working on becoming Non-Custodial Parents to the boys. God has taken them care of them in that she and her husband found a nice 5 bedroom home to rent and on the weekends that Crystal works, Ed watches the children. It is going to cost her $250 to file the legal papers and she was quite worried and wondered about how she was going to get the money to do this. Ed's grandparents sent Crystal a sympathy card and in it was a $300 check. There was her answer to prayer. the money to file for custody of the boys. Ed is very involved with each child including his own from a previous marriage as with Crystal's two children from her previous marriage. They are a Christian family and God has given Crystal such wonderful insight and wisdom to being a good mother and finding the right ways to raise a child without the aid of those books on the market that are so misguiding to the actual realization on how to be a good parent.
When the family sat down together, including the boys, to make a decision as to where they were going to live and giving the boys their freedom to chose whomever they wanted live with out of the two Aunts that were willing to step up to the plate, they all chose Crystal hands down. Seems the other sister wanted to take them for all the wrong reasons part of which was the money that will come from Social Security to help suport the children. Rachel was also a member of the up river tribe so their will be some help there and whatever the state will provide in the way of medical coverage and food stamps. Her household has jumped from 4 permanent residents to 7 now. Then on the visitation days Ed has his children....well lets just say it is a house full.
There is going to be a fundraising celebration of life on Sunday the 13th for those family and friends who want to attend and for those who want to donate. You see, the funeral home wanted $4500 for Rachel's cremation and the family is so poor their is no way they could afford it. The family spoke with the funeral home about the entire situation and they lowered the price down to $2500. Since there wasn't going to be an open viewing (at the request of the boys who said, "They didn't want anyone to see their mom dead") so to the family that $4500 was uncalled for. They will not release Rachel's ashes to the family until the bill is paid. Some family and friends have already donated and we plan on being there to celebrate her life and make a donation. There will be no flowers because Rachel didn't believe in giving flowers to anyone because she loved life and flowers always die. She loved angel statues and had quite a collection. So the family has requested that flowers not be given and is holding this fundraising celebration pot luck for those who want to come and remember Rachel for who she was while alive. The last time I talked to Rachel was when she called to see if it was alright leave an angel at my mom's grave. I thought that was a beautiful gesture on her part. She loved my mom and got along great with her.
I am really going to miss her as will Josh. Pray for Josh and her family that they will get through this grief and pain with God's loving arms around them to help keep them strong for themselves as well as the boys.
That is all for now. I will keep you all posted as things develop. The lab results from the autopsy will not be back for at least 6 to 8 weeks. So when I know something I will let you know. I am putting some pictures of Rachel in this blog so that those of my family and friends will know what she and the kids looked like. Thanks for taking the time to read my ramblings. You can read her obit at the Lemley Chapel site which is www.lemleychapel.com. Stroll on over and sign the guest book. Love to you all and thanks a head of time for your prayers.
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Elijah Jared Brian


Acting goofy Happier times
Taken on their wedding day